You find here? The feeling of love, always very sweet in the beginning, I felt much more a stay, one more person to help you share, you finally no longer alone, because at least one person thinking of you, Lianzhao you, whatever you do things, as long as we can be together, that is good.
but slowly, with the deeper understanding of each other, you begin to find on the shortcomings, so the problem occurred one after another, you start trouble, tired, or even want to escape. Some say love is like picking up rocks, always want to pick up a suitable, but how do you know when to pick it? She is suitable for you, then you may also suitable for her?
fact, love should be like grinding Dan Zier, maybe just pick up, you are not quite satisfied, but remember, people are resilient, many things can be changed as long as you determination, courage, and their pick up around the stones is unknown, might as well be owned by the stone he had polished finish, you start to wear it? Many people think that because of feelings of light, so people would become lazy. Is first to be inert conquered people, so the feeling will pale.
occasion at a dinner, it was suggested to eat more shrimp on the body good, this time there is a middle-aged man suddenly said: ten shrimp, I peel twenty to her! Now, if she wants me to help peel shrimp shells, just kidding! I did not even help her interest in their food, and also peeling shrimp shell do? and more people want to talk about a lifetime of love, has refused to marriage. Because, marriage easy to become lazy.
if everyone was speaking of lazy, too lazy to listen, too lazy to create a surprise, too lazy to gentle, then the husband and wife or lovers, how not to drift apart gradually silent it? So remember: a dynamic of love, is the need for irrigation modest hospitality, love, is not lazy.
have a couple, similar to dinner after work, shopping, but the girls because the company delayed the meeting, and when she take the time had arrived late inch for 30 minutes, his boyfriend was not happy to say: you always this way, now I did not feel anything, and I will no longer waiting for you!
Similarly, in the same place, another couple is facing the same situation, when the girl arrived late for half an hour, and his boyfriend, said: He is the girl to face the rain again, and take off his jacket draped over the girl who, at the moment, the girl in tears, but the flow of her tears on my face is warm and happy.
you feel it? In fact, our love is often just an idea! Tolerance not only to know how to love better in time, a lot of things may just change that fills your heart. When someone loves you, and you think he good, that does not mean that you would choose him.
We always said: do not know.
Yes, we always thought that we would love to find a man she loved. But later, when we suddenly look back, we will find what they once naive. If never started, how do you know she will love love that person? In fact, love the feeling, is to experience a lot of things together until after discovery. Perhaps everyone would like to find their partner in mind one hundred percent, but have you ever thought you had already been around will give you a long time in silence, but you just do not find it?
So, still a closer look at the people around you, he might have been waiting for you a long time. When you love someone, love to just eight absolute good. All the expectations and hopes are only Qi Bafen remaining twenty-three points to love yourself. If you continue to love even more, is likely to give each other a heavy pressure, so that each breath, completely lost the love of fun.
So remember, drink no more than six drunk, eat no more than seven full, love a person no more than eight. If you are confused for love, perhaps the following words can give you some inspiration: love a person, to understand but also open solution; to apologize also thanks; to admit also error correction; to be understanding and considerate; is to accept rather than endure; is tolerant and not condoned; is to support, not dominate; is sympathy, not questioned; is talk, not a complaint; is memorable but not forgotten; is communicate with each other and not explain everything; is silent pray for each other rather than to the many other requirements. Can be romantic, but do not waste, do not casually hand, not to let go.
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